baby shower gifts - thoughts from a ftm

before baby, I neverrrrr knew the best gift to get for the expecting mom. typically, I’d pick something random from the registry and pick up a card and a little outfit. after having my own - my perspective has obviously changed. if you want to give the standout gift, here are my suggestions:

first things first - buy off of the registry (!!!) cannot stress this enough. these are extras

  1. DOORDASH GIFT CARDS - sooo underrated, but our most used and most appreciated gift. aside from our freezer meals I prepped on a whim (see e-book for postpartum freezer meals, coming soon!), having DoorDash gift cards literally saved us. we totally underestimated how much time we would not have.

  2. GIFT FOR MOMMA TOO - the best gift second to the DoorDash gift card was a postpartum basket for me. filled with my favorite snacks, nightgown, lip balm, slippers, etc. this was so thoughtful and we were able to reuse the basket in baby’s closet.

  3. DIAPERS & WIPES - some moms may be particular when it comes to brands, ingredients, etc. but personally I loved having a stash of diapers and wipes. it saved us so much money and time at the beginning.

  4. SWAP A CARD FOR A BOOK - many people are doing this now and I love it! write a message on the inside in lieu of a card

lastly, I won’t tell you not to get clothes, but if the baby is due in June, don’t buy it a Christmas outfit in newborn size…

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